How to change your life completely in 60 days
August 16, 2010
I decided I would write a series of blog postings citing my recent experiences with how I have been easily moving in a more positive direction. I recently came to a lot of great conclusions about these techniques and I want to explain what I have discovered and how I got here so I can help other people get what they want easily and quickly.
The end of this month will mark the fifth year that I have known about the Law of Attraction and have been trying to move in a more positive direction.
I first learned about the Law of Attraction from a friend in Toronto, Canada who introduced me to the Abraham-Hicks audios. In the beginning, I was not that interested in the idea of being “happy”. I was rather more focused on getting the manifestations. I would roll my eyes when I would listen to Abraham say that it is important to feel good. I would think to myself that it is important to leave my job because I was so miserable there. I did not know how to feel better at my job or look at other things that were not that good in my life and try to feel good about them too.
What I was good at though was retaining the knowledge of Abraham and remembering the answers to so many questions. In the first year and a half of understanding the Law of Attraction I was able to release a lot of very negative beliefs and move in a better direction. I began to apply the techniques on a less than regular basis though. I did not understand the connection between applying the techniques and feeling better. I still did not understand that feeling better is really the goal and the relief that we are all seeking.
So I was still about 49 percent negative for a while. I would see the things that I did not like and I would either ignore them or complain about them but I would rarely do anything to change my feelings about them.
In May a very unexpected thing happened. I had a family member who was in good health suddenly die and it really brought me down and then by the end of June my dog Dottie died and I was really feeling very down. Right after my Aunt died I realized that I had too much anxiety and stress and that I needed to do a lot of stress reduction so I decided to do something called Faster EFT.
Faster EFT helped me a lot. I was able to go back to different parts of my life and change my negative memories. I worked on a lot of things that had been bothering me and I believe a lot of problems cleared for me as a result. Somehow it just became easier to focus in a more positive direction because of Faster EFT.
What was very interesting though was I discovered that the feeling a little better technique by Abraham-Hicks and Faster EFT or even regular EFT are basically the same thing. I think the feeling better technique by Abraham-Hicks is actually easier because you do not need someone else to figure out how you are creating the problem and/or you do not need to learn a technique either. All you have to do is just try to feel a little better than what you are feeling now. All you have to do is just reach for something you KNOW to be true that feels good. Then you put yourself in a more powerful state of allowing and then it is easier for you to let in what you have been asking for.
Also, two other things that really helped me are meditation and my new blackberry (if you can believe that). For five years I would meditate on and off. I did not really get what meditation was about because I felt like I understood what Abraham was talking about and; therefore, I thought meditation really is a waste of time. I have come to learn that meditation is very important because it really helps to put you in a very relaxed state and; therefore, in the receiving mode. Now I meditate twice a day at least just because I love to feel good and relaxed always.
My blackberry, as I mentioned, has been very instrumental in helping me become more allowing. I have wordpad on my blackberry and I use it to practice feeling good. I have documents saved in there such as: try to feel better, positive aspects about so-and-so, I remember the good feeling of… etc. I type in these documents all the time and I just practice good feeling thoughts. Abraham has a technique called touchstones where I write all really good memories that I have had throughout my life down and whenever I really want to raise my vibration and feel good I go into that document on my phone and read them and feel great.
I have been doing this often enough that in less than two months I have really acclimated to feeling good. Now my biggest priority is feeling good and because of that I am letting in so much of that which I perceive to be good into my life. Life has gotten a lot easier because I have come to realize just how important feeling good is and when I do not feel good I constantly try to feel better. I feel much more able to help others to move in this direction because I have done it in such a powerful way for myself. I really feel blessed that I am so young and have figured this out because I know I have a beautiful life ahead of me.
I would just like to recap what I think you should do if you want to achieve the results I have. If you are not familiar with the Law of Attraction or are really new at it I would do the following:
1. Watch the movie “The Secret”. I think it is a great idea to watch this movie because this movie really showcases the Law of Attraction in a great light and it entices people.
2. Purchase the book “Ask and It is Given” by Abraham-Hicks. In this book Abraham really explains techniques on how to become more positive. You can purchase a used book for relatively very little money on Amazon.com and the shipping and handling fee there is always less than four dollars.
3. Meditate. You must meditate. It is a must. It will take you longer to allow if you do not meditate.
4. You must put the techniques from “Ask and It Is Given” into practice. There is no way around this. If you do not do something different then you will not get anything better. The best way to put it into practice is by using wordpad, as I suggested earlier, on your phone.
5. Watch what comes. Pay attention to how you are changing. The more you put this stuff into practice the more money you will allow into your life, the more optimistic you will be, you will sweat the small stuff less and less, feeling good will become a priority to you, having fun will be a very big priority to you. Within sixty days you will see your life dramatically change. So have fun and let me know if you have questions!
